You are my hero today XD
I very much second that. Sure it's good to figure out a good/relevant build for your char but for the most part it's about playing a class you like and really enjoy. You can have the most OP planned builds etc yet not enjoy playing which is the saddest imo. So just go for what you love and if some form of helpful build is part of that be happy XD don't let others tell you otherwise!
Again this is just my opinion and how I choose to play, I have a blast with my friends.
Good luck~ xoxo~